i strongly dislike girls

for those of you who know me, i tend to say "hate"... but i'm going to try to get away from that.

I strongly dislike hot weather, especially, for very obvious (unfortunately) reasons.


anyways, on to business.
in a comment responding to my last post, it was stated that i might need to "consider the types of girls i'm looking for"...
this assumes that the commenter knew/knows what it is that i'm looking for. (i wish i had more time to hang out with you, and i'm thankful for your 'presence' in my life! this isn't personal).
Based solely on a third-person, very removed perspective, it would certainly 'appear' that for the past... oh, 3 i guess... romantic/dating/'serious' relationships, i have been involved with very physically attractive young ladies.
a natural assumption from this would be that i sought out these ladies based upon their physical appearances, largely if not solely.

now...

i'm not going to lie, although you wouldn't really be able to tell one way or the other on this blog... but, in one of those 3 cases, the physical appearance played a large role in my initial attraction. personality followed very very closely as a factor in that relationship, though, and it was personality that maintained the relationship for most of the time we were together.

in the other two of my most recent relationships, it was intellectual and emotional attraction that held the most sway... physical attraction did not develop until later on into the time spent together!

i'm very tempted to put a list of "qualifications" or something just so those of you who read this would KNOW what it is that i truly seek in my close relationships...

suffice it to say - intelligence, confidence, wit, a smile, and fitness are what i consider the most attractive qualities in a lady. and that's what i'm "looking for" in my relationships.